The Gardener

AOCS

Anchored · Open · Collective · Self-Sufficient

The Gardener is a cultivator of flexible connection—patient, adaptive, and genuinely comfortable letting relationships define themselves organically. You tend to your bonds with care, adjusting to what each connection needs rather than imposing a fixed structure. For you, love is about co-creation, not control.

You thrive in relationships where structure emerges collaboratively—where "it depends" is a legitimate answer, everyone has flexibility, and where you can genuinely adapt to what works for the people involved. Whether it's exclusive bonding, open arrangements, or something in between, you believe that the best relationships are designed together. You want a partnership where both people have a voice, that names and honors needs. 

Gardeners bring generous adaptability to connection—creating spaces where love can grow in whatever shape it naturally takes. Your flexibility teaches others that relationships don't need to fit templates, that loving someone well sometimes means meeting them where they are.

Your mantra: "We grow what works, together."

Top 3 Most Compatible Archetypes:

1. The Butterfly (EOCS) - Shares your open, collective, self-sufficient nature; appreciates your adaptability

2. The Collaborator (AFCS) - Shares your anchored, collective, self-sufficient values; both value co-creation

3. The Spark (AOPS) - Shares your anchored, open, self-sufficient approach; can design structure together

✨ Curious what this means for your relationships? Your full report reveals how you thrive, where you struggle, and which archetypes bring out your best connection. Learn how to navigate your unique bonding style, deepen trust, and build the kinds of relationships that make you feel most alive.