What’s your bonding style?

After receiving and listening to your feedback, we’ve retired the old test and are currently working on a completely new test structure in collaboration with our academic partners. We’ve created a PDF version of the old test you can download and use it as a tool to start thinking about your bonding preferences.

What started as a curiosity between 4 friends has turned into an international collaboration to answer the question:

how do we bond?

We want to help people have healthier relationships. To do that, we need to better understand people’s actual wants, needs, and desires. Relationships come in all shapes and sizes for a bevy of reasons, but the research on relationship diversity is very limited. We’re on a mission to change that.

20,000 people have taken the test

Our Bonders include members of all ages, gender and sexual identities.
The Bonding Styles test has been taken in dozens of countries from people from all kinds of cultural backgrounds.